Mode guide · video

Meet face to face, on your terms

Video adds expression and presence to a one-to-one chat. It also reveals more of your space, so it deserves a conscious choice and a little preparation.

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Video needs camera and microphone permission. Never interpret a face on screen as proof of identity, safety or intent.

Look at the background before the lens

A tidy frame is pleasant, but privacy matters more. Move mail, work documents, school names, family photos and street views out of sight. Check whether reflective surfaces show more of the room than you expect. A window can reveal landmarks, and a shared room may put someone else on camera without their agreement. Position your device steadily and test the angle before you join. You do not need a studio look: ordinary light in front of your face is usually enough to be seen clearly.

Keep sound and connection realistic

Video uses more bandwidth and battery than text or voice. If your connection is unstable, move closer to a reliable network or choose a lower-bandwidth mode. Headphones help prevent echo. If the other person freezes, first check your own connection and whether the browser has camera and microphone access. A bad call can be a technical issue, not a personal rejection. It is okay to move to voice or leave and try another time; forcing a weak video connection rarely improves the conversation.

Consent does not end at the permission prompt

Browser permission allows the site to use a device; it does not mean you consent to screenshots, recordings or pressure from another participant. Avoid showing sensitive documents, intimate content or anything you would feel unsafe having copied. You can ask the other person not to record, but you cannot technically guarantee compliance on their device. If a request crosses your boundary, stop the call. If the conduct is abusive, use report or block where available and keep any lawful evidence you need.

Choose video for the right reason

Seeing an expression can help a warm conversation feel immediate. It can also be tiring when you want a quiet, low-pressure chat. Choose video when you want that presence, not because someone tells you a text or voice conversation is invalid. If you are new to the product, read the full flow first, including sign-in and any applicable access limit or price. A good first call begins with a choice you understand.

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Meet face to face, on your terms

Look at the background before the lens

Keep sound and connection realistic

Consent does not end at the permission prompt

Choose video for the right reason

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