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Write an opening line, read the reply, and let the conversation breathe. Text gives you a pause before answering and does not reveal your voice, face or room. It can be especially useful on a train, in a shared home, or when a network makes audio unreliable. Silence is easier to handle in writing too: you can ask a clearer question without feeling that every second must be filled. The trade-off is that humor and warmth can be harder to read, so plain words and patience matter.
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